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Why I Quit the Fast Track to Early Retirement – (Ep. 24)

Why I Quit the Fast Track to Early Retirement – (Ep. 24)

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In this episode, Aaron shares a deeply personal story about walking away from what seemed like the “smart financial decision.” After landing a high-paying corporate job that promised early financial freedom, he quickly realized the hidden cost, long hours, constant travel, loneliness, and a marriage under strain. Despite the impressive paycheck, the life behind it felt empty. Aaron opens up about the moment he chose emotional well-being, relationships, and happiness over money and how that decision reshaped his philosophy on financial planning.

This episode challenges the idea that success means constant sacrifice and burnout. It’s a reflection on how our pursuit of wealth can blind us to what truly matters and a reminder that financial planning should be about more than numbers.

Key Topics Discussed:

  • The emotional toll of chasing financial success

  • Balancing career ambition with mental health and relationships

  • Why “the smart financial move” isn’t always the right life move

  • The myth of “paying your dues” to achieve happiness later

  • Redefining wealth: how money should support your happiness, not replace it

  • Building a financial plan that prioritizes fulfillment, not just returns

Article: Why Chasing Bigger Numbers Can Make You Miserable

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The Comparison Trap – Overcoming my Personal Burnout (Ep. 23)

The Comparison Trap – Overcoming my Personal Burnout (Ep. 23)

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What happens when you constantly compare yourself to others?

In this episode, Aaron Buchner, from Cactus, returns after a five-month hiatus to share a deeply personal story of emotional burnout caused by the pressures of social media comparison. Initially engaging in ‘doom scrolling’ for content ideas, Aaron found himself increasingly obsessed with likes, follows, and validation from others, leading to a full-blown emotional breakdown.

Aaron discusses:

  • (00:26) The Burnout Begins
  • (01:11) The Social Media Trap
  • (02:55) The Downward Spiral
  • (07:47) Emotional Meltdown
  • (10:28) A Change in Perspective
  • (13:38) Embracing Authenticity
  • (15:41) Final Thoughts and Advice

 

Article: Why Comparing Your Investment Returns Hurts Your Portfolio (And Your Peace of Mind)

 

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The Story Behind Cactus and Prick Free Financial Advice with Karine Parthenais – Part 2 (Ep. 14)

The Story Behind Cactus and Prick Free Financial Advice with Karine Parthenais – Part 2 (Ep. 14)

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How did Cactus and “Prick Free” come to life?

In this episode, Aaron Buchner brings back Karine Parthenais from Mellow Brew Marketing for part 2 of their conversation about the creative journey behind their innovative rebranding efforts for Cactus. Together, they delve into the behind-the-scenes magic that birthed the “Prick Free” concept and Cactus’s vibrant identity.

Aaron and Karine discuss: 

  • (01:31) The pivotal moment that sold Aaron on the ‘Prick Free Financial Advice’
  • (02:18) Karine’s knack for capturing the essence of her clients through words
  • (03:20) Navigating client involvement in the branding process
  • (06:31) The balance of pushing boundaries and maintaining compliance
  • (13:55) The thought process behind the unique color palette for Cactus
  • (17:09) Using authentic elements like Aaron’s Converse to convey brand identity
  • And more

Ready to hear how Aaron’s vision and Karine’s wordsmith skills created an unmistakably fresh financial experience? Tune in and find out!

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About our Guest: 

Karine Parthenais is the dynamic owner of Mellow Brew Marketing, a boutique marketing agency renowned for its tailored approach to business and branding strategies. With nearly 15 years of experience collaborating with business owners, Karine has honed her expertise in building impactful brands that resonate with their target audiences. In addition to her agency work, she is the founder and author of ‘The Work VACAY,’ a community aimed at helping entrepreneurs find balance and alignment in their professional lives. Karine’s passion for empowering businesses shines through in her dedicated approach, making her a sought-after partner for those looking to elevate their brand presence and achieve lasting success.

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The Story Behind Cactus and Prick Free Financial Advice with Karine Parthenais – Part 1 (Ep. 13)

The Story Behind Cactus and Prick Free Financial Advice with Karine Parthenais – Part 1 (Ep. 13)

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Ever wondered how a financial advisor can stand out in the crowded financial industry? What if the key to success is being a little more “left field” than expected? 

In this episode, Aaron Buchner welcomes his first guest, Karine Parthenais from Mellow Brew Marketing, to pull back the curtain on the bold rebrand of Cactus. Find out why Aaron chose to step away from the generic path and embrace a truly unique identity.

Aaron and Karine discuss: 

  • (03:08) The inspiration and process behind the Cactus rebranding journey
  • (08:47) The courage to embrace a unique and authentic brand identity that’s true to who you are
  • (21:36) The creative strategy behind choosing the name “Cactus” and “Prick Free Financial Advice”
  • And more

Join Aaron and Karine in this engaging conversation to see how financial planning can leave the boardroom and become an approachable, enjoyable experience!

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About our Guest: 

Karine Parthenais is the dynamic owner of Mellow Brew Marketing, a boutique marketing agency renowned for its tailored approach to business and branding strategies. With nearly 15 years of experience collaborating with business owners, Karine has honed her expertise in building impactful brands that resonate with their target audiences. In addition to her agency work, she is the founder and author of ‘The Work VACAY,’ a community aimed at helping entrepreneurs find balance and alignment in their professional lives. Karine’s passion for empowering businesses shines through in her dedicated approach, making her a sought-after partner for those looking to elevate their brand presence and achieve lasting success.

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Tuition vs. Retirement – The Ultimate Financial Tug of War! (Ep. 10)

Tuition vs. Retirement – The Ultimate Financial Tug of War! (Ep. 10)

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Are you torn between saving for your kids’ tuition and securing your retirement? 

It isn’t an either-or scenario. Learn how to balance these priorities without sacrificing your financial peace of mind!

In this episode, Aaron Buchner debunks the “put your own oxygen mask on first” analogy and shows how you can achieve both tuition savings and retirement goals. Listen in as Aaron discusses the importance of prioritizing, planning, and utilizing family contributions to create a balanced financial strategy. Discover how saving for your kids’ education and your own retirement doesn’t have to be stressful or exclusive.

Aaron discusses: 

  • Dual Priorities: Understand the importance of balancing both tuition and retirement savings
  • Planning Ahead: Learn how to structure your savings to accommodate both goals
  • Family Contributions: Discover ways to involve grandparents and relatives in your kids’ education fund
  • Real-Life Insights: Aaron shares his personal approach to navigating these financial decisions.
  • And more

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