Month: October 2025

Why I Quit the Fast Track to Early Retirement – (Ep. 24)

Why I Quit the Fast Track to Early Retirement – (Ep. 24)

In this episode, Aaron shares a deeply personal story about walking away from what seemed like the “smart financial decision.” After landing a high-paying corporate job that promised early financial freedom, he quickly realized the hidden cost, long hours, constant travel, loneliness, and a marriage under strain. Despite the impressive paycheck, the life behind it felt empty. Aaron opens up about the moment he chose emotional well-being, relationships, and happiness over money and how that decision reshaped his philosophy on financial planning.

This episode challenges the idea that success means constant sacrifice and burnout. It’s a reflection on how our pursuit of wealth can blind us to what truly matters and a reminder that financial planning should be about more than numbers.

Key Topics Discussed:

  • The emotional toll of chasing financial success

  • Balancing career ambition with mental health and relationships

  • Why “the smart financial move” isn’t always the right life move

  • The myth of “paying your dues” to achieve happiness later

  • Redefining wealth: how money should support your happiness, not replace it

  • Building a financial plan that prioritizes fulfillment, not just returns

Article: Why Chasing Bigger Numbers Can Make You Miserable

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The Comparison Trap – Overcoming my Personal Burnout (Ep. 23)

The Comparison Trap – Overcoming my Personal Burnout (Ep. 23)

What happens when you constantly compare yourself to others?

In this episode, Aaron Buchner, from Cactus, returns after a five-month hiatus to share a deeply personal story of emotional burnout caused by the pressures of social media comparison. Initially engaging in ‘doom scrolling’ for content ideas, Aaron found himself increasingly obsessed with likes, follows, and validation from others, leading to a full-blown emotional breakdown.

Aaron discusses:

  • (00:26) The Burnout Begins
  • (01:11) The Social Media Trap
  • (02:55) The Downward Spiral
  • (07:47) Emotional Meltdown
  • (10:28) A Change in Perspective
  • (13:38) Embracing Authenticity
  • (15:41) Final Thoughts and Advice

 

Article: Why Comparing Your Investment Returns Hurts Your Portfolio (And Your Peace of Mind)

 

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